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When you get together, remember that as difficult and maybe counter-intuitive as it seems, you should do your best to dial down your emotions when sharing your thoughts.
Obviously, your emotions are involved in the whole thing, otherwise, you wouldn’t have written to us, but they can sometimes cloud the issue and distract from what you want to accomplish.
This article was co-authored by our trained team of editors and researchers who validated it for accuracy and comprehensiveness.I want to get my feelings off my chest, but I’m not sure what the best way of doing so would be. My opinion on a guy sharing with a girl how he feels about her is this: If it’s done in an honorable and honest way, without any sort of manipulation or unbiblical motive, and she’s not on the verge of marriage (or married, obviously) then why not do it?I truly do want the best for her, and if this man can lead her to pursue God in a way that I wouldn’t be able to, then so be it. There’s absolutely nothing wrong or shameful about respectfully and honorably telling someone the truth about who you are and what is going on in your heart.As I’ve written before, women (and men) are entirely capable of taking in all the information there is about their relationship options and making their own decisions about them.While I appreciate the fact that we all want to respect someone pursuing the same person, that doesn’t mean we should feel as if we need to “protect” her from information that might alter the course she’s on.