Muslim guy dating christian girl
This is God’s command, and it is also wise, because God tells us that the marriage relationship is one that should help us to grow in godliness, not hinder us.
In fact, husbands are commanded to love their wives and help to make her holy.
I want she to become muslim from her true feelings and real feelings with that ALLAH is one and he is the god. Can I and her get married and lives as husband and wife? Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “Made lawful to you this day are At‑Tayyibaat [all kinds of Halaal (lawful) foods, which Allaah has made lawful (meat of slaughtered eatable animals, milk products, fats, vegetables and fruits)].
I am trying my best to provide her knowledge of islam and to showing her the right path. The food (slaughtered cattle, eatable animals) of the people of the Scripture (Jews and Christians) is lawful to you and yours is lawful to them.
She is agree to accept me with my faith and she wants me accept her with her faith, and the children would be MUSLIMS. Some of my friend adviced me to FORCE her to EMBRACE ISLAM, Like threaten "I won't marry you if you dont Embrace islam" This is what my friend adviced me, But as far as I realize, This wouldnt be fair at all. I guess, to embrace islam she must have the feelings that ALLAH is one and she should have the real feelings instead of fake feelings.
I dont want to force her cause I scare, that IF she becomes muslim JUST to show me, JUST to get married with me, Its gonna be SIN on me. Allaah has permitted us to marry Jewish and Christian woman, on condition that they are chaste and avoid zina (unlawful sexual relations), and that the wali (guardian) of that Christian woman is a Muslim.
Choose the one who is religious, may your hands be rubbed with dust [i.e., may you prosper].” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 4802; Muslim, 1466).
As she said " I am very very strong christian, I just cannot accept any faith than christianity, I cannot become muslim.
My answer to that is going to be a"no," but I hope you would read my explanation below.
It would be helpful for us to look at the Bible’s definitions of what is a Christian and what is a Muslim.
Sharh Muslim, 10/52 But marriage to women of the People of the Book leads to a great deal of mischief and trouble, such as: 1.
He may have to be courteous to this wife of his at the expense of his religion, especially if she is “very committed” to her own religion.