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The minister doesn't know if it is just for friendship or something more, but it has definitely piqued the minister's interest.The minister knows that our hearts are prone to wander, and that it is possible to "stir up love before its time." Because of this the minister takes several weeks or months examining their own heart trusting that as they delight in the Lord He will clarify if the desire to pursue the friendship is a desire from God or just a fleshly desire of man.When they are in groups together the minister finds their attention focusing more and more on this individual.The respect grows and the desire to get to know this person becomes something that is on the mind of the minister quite often. Even if his or her heart is pure it is just too big a risk for the greater good, so "absolutely not!
They need to be people who are strong enough in their love for Christ and their love for you that they can say what needs to be said about your situation.
" "Look other places for a suitable mate, for the sake of the church don't date someone in the congregation." or at least if you are about to start dating someone in the church encourage them to change churches so the possible damage or gossip will be lessened. There are many risks to dating someone in your congregation.
It could cause problems for those who can't handle the fact that the pastor has a personal life and has feelings for someone of the opposite gender.
This will be one of the greatest safeguards against irreparable damage that could happen to you, your friend, your ministry, and your congregation.
If you have examined your heart, and feel free to move forward, then ask God to help you recruit the needed "partners of truth and grace" that you will need during these days.