Dating services for adults
Before the yes, we’ve got to gather a lot of “maybe” potentials.
Screening first dates before actually meeting is an efficiency step that you will save you a lot of dates with mere frogs.
But, also, don’t make huge life decisions (moving in together, getting married, having a kid) while you are still in the “glow” of a new sexual relationship. Burn brightly while it lasts, but be aware of the fire, the altered reality of your passions, and know that your judgment is severely impaired.
If 0.02% of the potential partners are all we have to choose from, choose wisely. If you burn up, celebrate your recent ignition, and get on with the task of finding the next potential partner. Eventually, we’re all going to be disappointed in our partners.
And, in my experience over the last nine years, since my divorce, online dating produced 3 of the five relationships I’ve been involved in.
(3 short-term relationships, 1 engagement, and my current relationship.) So, if not online…